I am so far behind on my blog posts some of the things I have not recorded are in this video I have made below. Well I can surely say that I am glad 2013 has ended and that we have another year now to begin a fresh. I am feeling so much better than I did this time last year. It has been a challenging year for me but I am slowly feeling like I am pulling myself out of the 'dark hole' that I felt like I sunk into last year. We all have trials and last year was a rough one but I feel excited now about the future and what lies in store for us all. I put together this little video of my past year as I wanted to look at some of the great things that happened last year for us also.
A New year, New goals, New Hopes and now it is time to record some of our special family memories and share them with those who are dear to us.
Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dad. Show all posts
Tuesday, 14 January 2014
Friday, 26 April 2013
ANZAC DAY - MY GRANDAD!
ANZAC DAY - My Grandad.
Yesterday was ANZAC day. A day when we remember and appreciate those who went to war on behalf of our country. Aunty Colleen in OZ (dad's sister) texted me to see if I had any information about her father (the pic below) serving in the war. Mum said that my brother Aaron has some info so I went around to his house and got some things out of this precious little brown suitcase which obviously went to war with Grandad. There were lots of photos, letters, little books, heaps of sheet music in little newspaper like books and a few other things. I just wanted to share some of the treasures I found.
So this is my Handsome Grandfather Below.
Owen Mahon born 15th December 1918 in Auckland NZ and he died 4th Feb 1996
( I was serving a mission in Australia when he died)
I am amazed by his strength and courage. When he was 10 his mother
died and he went to live with his Aunts. His mums name was Flora Ada Lepper.
He went to live with his great aunties, Mertil and Lil Lepper. They lived in Northcote Point
and their family home was the Northcote point Post office. I can remember going to
visit the old Aunts as a child. Mertil and Lil have long since died but the house still
remains there and is now classified as a 'Historical Places' building so it can't be changed much at all. (cool history)
On the 11th Jan 1947 My Grandad married my Grand mother
Una Joyce Hill
she was born on the 7th Sept 1920.
I want to learn more about how they met because I can see from
photos etc that she was in the Navy too. But this was a while after
Grandad arrived home from the 2nd World War.

Below is the special old suitcase I went through last night. It is full of such treasures! I wish I could ask this little suitcase to talk to me and tell me all the stories and places it went during the
war with Grandad.
I think this little bible below is kind of special. The suitcase had a few bibles in it and some other special little books etc but I think the message from 'His Majesty the King' at the front of the book is interesting.

I also loved the back of this little book. Grandad had noted down scriptures on the last page.
I will have a read and ponder of these scriptures some time today. I think it may be interesting to see which scriptures stuck out to him during this challenging time of his life at war.
This letter below is very touching. Grandad's sister Phil (who is still alive today), wrote a letter to another man serving at war. Grandad had written to her asking her to write to him as he never got letters from home etc. Letters at war were such a booster for those serving and Grandad obviously felt sorry for this guy. I loved reading Aunty Phil's letter to him as she was so eloquent and kind as she wrote. She told him in the letter that she had experienced a time in her life when a person scared her and she kind of felt a little hesitant writing to a complete stranger but she kindly asked this man to write back to her telling her a little about himself so she could be comforted in herself and her mind could be settled.
The sad part of this story is the envelope below. Her letter was 'RETURNED TO SENDER' with the words on the envelope at the front 'DEAD LETTER OFFICE NZ' and on the back it was stamped, 'CERTIFIED MISSING'. I think this was so sad and I wonder what thoughts went through her mind for the safety of her only brother Owen, my Grandad.
There were at least 60 letters like this one written by my Grandfather, Owen Mahon, to his family. They were all written on this paper and were all dated, he also numbered all his letters, so this is letter number 30. The date is June 1942. I noted he was still at war at the end of this year too, last night letter number 50 was dated December this same year. I think he was there for at least one year, maybe two?? I would love to re type all of these letters in the right order and put them into a readable book form before the letters are too old to read etc. They are like gold to me. Some of his stories at war are very humbling. I try to imagine what it must have been like for him to have had the life he had. I still remember when he was alive and a fully grown older man, he would still get all teary eyed when he talked about the war. After reading just a few of these letters I
can now partially appreciate why.
can now partially appreciate why.
What a legacy my grandfather, Owen Mahon left for all of us and it isn't too late to gather all this information and to learn more and more. I am so excited! His determination and strength helps me to understand my own dad, his son, who was also a real determined person and who fought an amazing fight in my eyes. All of this information gives me the strength to 'carry on' in faith when some days feel too hard to bear.
Friday, 15 March 2013
VALENTINES DAY THIS YEAR.
We are a month on and I have finally got around to getting these photos off mum. I have gotta enter what we did for Valentines day this year. It was a bit of a hard day for us all as 'Valentines Day' is mum and dad's wedding anniversary. So I wanted mum to not feel too alone on this day that has been special for her and dad for the past 42 years. Nix and I composed this cool poem below the night before Feb the 14th. Then we went over to her house late Valentines Eve and 'Heart attacked' her house everywhere. We sprinkled little hearts all over her doorstep with some chocolates and this special poem hanging from the door. (the idea of the poem was that it was from Dad to Mum) We stuck hearts all over her front lawn and gel ones all over her car etc etc (see photos below). She said she cried when she read our poem. Then we went out for dinner to Verbenas with Keith and I, Aunty Robyn, Mum, Aaron and Sharis and Terry and Sha, (all of mums closest and dearest). Kylee also made some beautiful cup cakes for mum which we had delivered to our table when we were at dinner. All in all it was a sad day as we all miss dad so much but nice to have an excuse to all get together. The poem below sums it all up from us to them.
Oh and you too Keithy Boy you are my Valentine, I almost forgot as this day was kinda dedicated to mum and dad but I promise next year I will be all yours again. ... (I did give him chocolates too LOL)
Mums Doorstep
Mums Car, it read, "We love you Queen Patricia".
This is mum's nick name for those of you who don't know that.
Polystyrene hearts all over the lawn.
Gel hearts etc over her car window.
A toast to Mum and Dad after mum read out the letter.
Kylee's beautiful Valentine Cupcakes below
For family home evening a few days before, Keith and I and the kids made some lollie packs up for all the people they wanted to give them too. During our night out I gave these out to all of the people there. The kids gave them to their teachers etc and other people of their choice. (see the cupid Poop bags below with lots of love heart lollies inside etc)
Then on dads birthday a few weeks ago (24th Feb) everyone went out for dinner, I made this cake to remember my Daddy. I still miss him so so much each day, and feel like it will always be hard!
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Sunday, 13 January 2013
WE BURY DADS ASHES
On Wednesday the 9th of Jan 2013 we went up to
Snapper Rock as a family and buried dads ashes. It was just Mum,
Aaron and Sharis and Ethan,
Me, Keith, Arama, Terina and Niwa and Terry (Dads best friend and
Business partner). The only ones missing were Aunty Colleen, Uncle Ken, Sarah and the rest of the family.
It was the most amazing weather and we had a lovely
day.
We got 10 Helium balloons,
one for each of us and when we had finished Burying the ashes, we all cut one balloon each and said
something as we released it into the sky.
It was so impromptu and special.
We all said something and it was quite emotional and spiritual. We got this all on video which I would
like to edit and put on my blog at
a later time. I Liked what Terry
said “I will cut the string but will never cut the ties”, Ethan said, “I hope you are enjoying playing bowls in Heaven Poppa”, Terina said “I love how you gave me
money every Wednesday for Mini Muchie Markets at school Poppa”, I said, “Because of you Dad,
I will always try to ‘Reach for the Stars’, Mum said "I think of you all the time Roddy", Keith said “We will see you again
someday Rod”, I can’t remember
everything everyone said but these are some of the words I remembered.
It was kind of cool how we just sat around informally chatting about our special Hero.
My special Arama contemplating.
Below: These are Dads Cherry Tomatoes that have just turned red.
Mum Buried some with his box of ashes. She also took some roses from
the garden that grew outside their bedroom window.
Below: Arama wiping away his tears. My Darling
Arama was so close to My Dad but Arama tells me
he isn't sad because he truely believes in the Plan that
Familes can be together forever.
Thank you Arama for being my strength!
I don't know where I would be without you!
I love you so much. xxx
Above: Terry with Diesel his best friend who goes everywhere with him.
Below the kids with their new Surrogate Poppa.
Not that there will ever be another one that could ever measure
up to my Greatest Hero Dad eva!
We all also had a turn at shoveling in some dirt on top of the ashes.
The next few photos are of us all having a turn with the shovel.
NIWA
TERINA
ARAMA
MUM
ETHAN
AARON
ME
TERRY
SHARIS
KEITH
We truly loved our Dad and Poppa and Companion (in mum’s case).
I have had a special dream since dad has passed to let me know that he
is not too far away at all, this has been very sacred and comforting for me.
However.... on this day I missed him dearly. I got home and I just
cried and cried and cried. Some days I just can't believe he has passed!
I miss you so much my dear Daddy, I know you are not far away but that
doesn't stop me from missing you.
Please be patient while I grieve for you.
You are my inspiration and will always be a good reason for me
to try harder each day and to get up and keep going when I feel discouraged and low.
You always were one not to muck around and to just 'get the job done'
so I won't waste too much
time crying but a little here and there won't hurt.
YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY HEART!
FAMILIES ARE FOREVER xxxx
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